Dear Vedic Friends,
Namaste. In this issue of the VFA Journal we will
take a look at the Women in Vedic Culture. The view of Vedic culture and
women, as well as some of the histories or short biographies of the some
of the outstanding women that are known in Vedic culture, as well as some
who have done much service in the preservation and promotion of Vedic culture.
I hope you like this issue.
Hari om and Hari bol,
Sri Nandanandana dasa
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Women in Vedic Culture
By Stephen Knapp
There are many civilizations in the world where respect for women and their
role in society is prominent, and others where regard for them and their
status should be improved. Yet the level of civility along with moral and
spiritual standards in a society can often be perceived by the respect
and regard it gives for its women. Not that it glorifies them for their
sexuality and then gives them all the freedom men want so they can be exploited
and taken advantage of, but that they are regarded in a way that allows
them to live in honor for their importance in society with respect and
protection, and given the opportunity to reach their real potential in
life.
Among the many societies that can be found in the world, we have seen that
some of the most venerating regard for women has been found in Vedic culture.
The Vedic tradition has held a high regard for the qualities of women,
and has retained the greatest respect within its tradition as seen in the
honor it gives for the Goddess, who is portrayed as the feminine embodiment
of important qualities and powers. These forms include those of Lakshmi
(the goddess of fortune and queen of Lord Vishnu), Sarasvati (the goddess
of learning), Subhadra (Krishna’s sister and auspiciousness
personified), Durga (the goddess of strength and power), Kali (the power
of time), and other Vedic goddesses that exemplify inner strength and divine
attributes. Even divine power in the form of shakti is considered feminine.
Throughout the many years of Vedic culture, women have always been given
the highest level of respect and freedom, but also protection and safety.
There is a Vedic saying, “Where women are worshiped, there
the gods dwell.� Or where the women are happy, there will
be prosperity. Due to this tradition, India’s history includes
many women who have risen to great heights in spirituality, government,
writing, education, science, or even as warriors on the battlefield.
In the matter of dharma, in the days of Vedic culture, women stood as a
decisive force in spirituality and the foundation of moral development.
Throughout the history of India and the traditions of Vedic society, women
were also examples for maintaining the basic principles in Sanatana-dharma.
This honor toward women should be maintained by the preservation of genuine
Vedic culture, which has always been a part of India.
Unfortunately, these standards have declined primarily due to the outside
influences that have crept in because of foreign invaders, either militarily
or culturally. These foreign invaders who dominated India mostly looked
at women as objects of sexual enjoyment and exploitation, and as the spoils
of war to be taken like a prize. The oppression of women increased in India
because of Moghul rule. As such foreigners gained influence and converts,
decay of the spiritual standards also crept into Indian and Vedic culture.
The educational criteria of Vedic culture also changed and the teaching
of the divinity of motherhood was almost lost. The teaching changed from
emphasis on the development of individual self-reliance to dependence on
and service to others. Thus, competition replaced the pursuit for truth,
and selfishness and possessiveness replaced the spirit of renunciation
and detachment. And gradually women were viewed as less divine and more
as objects of gratification or property to be possessed and controlled.
This is the result of a rakshasic or demoniac cultural influence, which
still continues to grow as materialism expands in society. Money and sensual
gratification have become major goals in life, though they alone cannot
give us peace or contentment. Instead they cause us to develop more desires
in the hopes of finding fulfillment while leaving us feeling hollow and
ever-more restless without knowing why.
In Vedic culture it is taught that every man should view and respect every
woman, except his own wife, as his mother, and every girl with the same
concern and care as his own daughter. It is only because of the lack of
such training and the social distancing from the high morals as this that
this teaching is being forgotten, and the respect that society should have
for women has been reduced.
In this way, the change in the attitude toward women in India was due to
a loss of culture and of the true Vedic standards. Thus, it should be easy
to see the need for organizations that will keep and teach the proper views,
which were once a basic part of the genuine Vedic traditions.
When the position of women declines, then that society loses its equilibrium
and harmony. In the spiritual domain, men and women have an equal position.
Men and women are equal as sons and daughters of the same Supreme Father.
However, you cannot bring the spiritual domain to this Earth or enter the
spiritual strata if your consciousness is focused on the differences of
the sexes, and thus treat women poorly. One is not superior to the other,
but each has particular ways or talents to contribute to society and to
the service of God. So men should not try to control women by force, but
neither should women try to seize the role of men or try adopt the masculine
nature of men. Otherwise, imbalance results in society, just as a car will
not move properly when the tires on one side are too low or out of balance.
Women and men must work cooperatively like the twin wings of a bird, together
which will raise the whole society. If there is a lack of respect and cooperation,
how can society be progressive? After all, how can their be a spirit of
cooperation and appreciation between men and women when instead there is
a mood of competition? It is this mood in materialistic society that is
increasing in both family and corporate life which contributes to social
imbalance and not to a smooth and peaceful society.
Motherhood and Family
The nature of motherhood of women was always stressed in Vedic India. After
all, we often find them to be the foundation of family life and of raising
the children properly. They usually provide the love and understanding
and nurturing for the development of our children in a way that is unlikely
from most men.
Our own life is a gift from our mother’s life. We were nourished
by her, we spent nine months in her womb, and her love sustained us. Even
now we are loved by our mother. This includes Mother Nature and Mother
Earth, which is called Bhumi in the Vedic tradition. The Earth planet is
also like a mother because everything we need to live, all our resources,
come from her. As we would protect our own mother, we must also protect
Mother Earth.
Women in motherhood, after giving birth to a child that they have carried
for nine months, is the first guru and guide of the child and, thus, of
humanity. Through this means, before any child learns hatred or aggression,
they first know the love of a mother who can instill the ways of forgiveness
and kindness in the child. In this way, we can recognize that there is
often a strong women, either as a mother or as a wife, behind most successful
men.
In exhibiting the qualities of motherhood, women must be warm and tender,
strong and protective, yet also lay the foundation of discipline and the
discrimination of right from wrong. Furthermore, in the home it is usually
the woman who lends to providing beauty in decorating the house and facility
for an inspirational atmosphere. Also, she must usually provide the nutritious
and tasty dishes that give pleasure and strength for the fitness and health
of the body.
By their innate sense of motherhood and compassion, women also make natural
healers, care givers, and nurturers. Those women who have this intrinsic
disposition for caring will also be natural upholders of moral standards
and spiritual principles. By their own emotional tendencies and expressions,
they are also natural devotees of God.
In ancient India the Sanskrit words used by the husband for the wife were
Pathni (the one who leads the husband through life), Dharmapathni (the
one who guides the husband in dharma) and Sahadharmacharini (one who moves
with the husband on the path of dharma--righteousness and duty). This is
how ancient Vedic culture viewed the partnership of husband and wife.
When a husband and wife are willing to be flexible to each other’s
needs and move forward in love and mutual understanding, the relationship
can go beyond equality to one of spiritual union. This means that each
one appreciates the talents of the other, and views the other as complimenting
what each one already has. This also makes up for the weaknesses or deficiencies
of the other. In this way, each can provide support, encouragement and
inspiration to the other. This ideal can only be achieved when they properly
understand the principles of spirituality. It is also said that where the
husband and wife get along well, Lakshmi Devi (the goddess of fortune)
Herself dwells in that house.
It is also considered that a wife who serves a spiritually strong and qualified
husband automatically shares in whatever spiritual merit he achieves because
she assists him by her service.
The Feminine Divinities
In the Vedic tradition it is common to see the pairing of the Vedic male
Gods with a female counterpart, thus combining both sets of powers and
qualities that each would have. We can easily see this in Radha-Krishna,
Sita-Rama, Lakshmi-Vishnu, Durga-Shiva, Sarasvati-Brahma, Indrani-Indra,
etc. Thus, we have the combination of male and female Divinities that make
the complete balance in the divine spiritual powers.
Through the medium of pure affection, the feminine Divinities have been
able to break down the most powerful citadels known to creation, especially
those of evil. The divine mystery of life is that the most powerful forces
of the universe are subjugated by love, and that love is most completely
channeled through the feminine energy and personality.
For example, “Durga� means the one who is difficult
to know. Yet, being considered the mother of the universe, or the personification
of the material energy, we as her children can approach her through love.
And she will respond with love.
Also, out of love the goddess took the form of
Mahishasuramardini, or the one who destroyed the dark demon known as
Mahishasura. She was generated out of the anger and potency of Vishnu,
Shiva, Brahma, and others, and was the combination of their powers. They
could not defeat the demon, but the goddess could. Symbolically, Durga
can destroy the demonic darkness of the mode of ignorance and the quality
of laziness within each of us.
Another example is when Durga expressed her love and care to the Gods and
humanity by manifesting herself from her side as Kaushika Durga, also called
Ambika. By her beauty she attracted the demons Shumba and Nishumba to her.
Thus, they would not disturb the rest of creation. Then from her forehead
she manifested herself as the dark goddess Kali who killed all the disturbing
demons in that episode. In this way, through love the Divine feminine potency
takes on forms to alleviate powerful disturbances in the universe and within
us.
Out of love also the Divine feminine potency manifests as Srimati Radharani,
the consort of Lord Sri Krishna. One of her many names is Janagati, which
means the goddess of all goddesses. She is the origin of the divine feminine
love and beauty, and the epitome of devotion to the Supreme Being. Thus,
from the ideal spiritual world, we can see Her divine reflection mirrored
here in this relative world in all that is feminine, beautiful and pure.
By being conscious and aware of such qualities, we can perceive the spiritual
dimension pervading and flowing throughout this temporary material universe.
Thus, we recognize the very qualities of the Divine Persons from whom they
originate in the spiritual world. We humans are but limited reflected forms
of the Divine Couples who reside in original existence. This is why the
Vedic tradition placed much value in honoring and worshiping the Divine
feminine nature along with the masculineone without the other is incomplete.
This is onee of the unique traits that distinguishes Vedic culture from
others.
The Future
Examples in Vedic history have shown that all women should be respected
and honored for the potential and talent they can provide to keep the family
together, as well as bare and raise children, but also for the many women
who have taken up the cause to preserve, protect and carry on the spiritual
standards found in Vedic culture.
This shows that we should not diminish the potential that women have to
be strong advocates of the Vedic principles. We should not discriminate
and think that women have less to offer. It is not one’s sex
that will determine one’s strength and character to help champion
the Vedic cause.
In this world we need people to help in all areas and all levels of life
to protect the Vedic knowledge and traditions, and women have a very important
part to play. As we said, they are usually the first inspiration and first
teachers of our children. So many of the great men who had become powerful
proponents of Sanatana-dharma also had strong and inspiring mothers or
wives.
So, you never know who among the women in society, or among our daughters
we are raising that may become the next Savitri, Draupadi or Anasuya. Also,
you never know who among the boys that the women may raise that may become
a great Vedic saint or scholar or stalwart protector of our culture. We
must look on everyone as if they have that potential, because somewhere
and sometime it will happen. Another great person may appear, be it man
or woman, who will emerge from among us. We need to arrange for that possibility
to happen by giving all women and children the necessary facility and training.
Every girl should have the opportunity to learn spirituality along with
modern education to help her reach her full potential. Of course, this
can also be said of boys. No one is born hating another, but this is learned
in materialistic societies from wrong association. Only later in life does
a person learn the ways of liking their own kind and disliking anyone who
seems different. Genuine spiritual knowledge is the alternative to bring
a change in such a society and stop the hating and quarrel that go on because
of perceiving bodily and external differences between us.
It is the primitive customs as well as the sexist inventions in modern
but materialistic society that force social trends to limit, subjugate
or even exploit women in today’s world. Such a society does
not allow the strength or ingenuity of women to arise or be recognized,
at least not without a struggle both inside the mind of women and outside
in the field of activity and occupation. Women need to muster the strength
to overcome such limitations. It is not that the world does not need nurturing
and healing right now, which is a common and normal trait in women. After
all, how many times do we hear of women being accused of rape, or child
abuse and molestation, or kidnaping and murder? These are mostly the crimes
of men, imbalanced men but men nonetheless. There is also a connection
between the way men destroy the environment (Mother Nature) and their exploitative
attitude toward women. This must be corrected.
A faulty beginning or childhood, as well as exposure to thoughts and ideas
and indoctrinations of one’s limitations rather than of one’s
superior potential is one of the reasons why women lose their ability,
means or motivation for higher accomplishments in life. This often causes
their spirit of achievement and contribution to be squelched. This only
adds to the struggle of women which is often passed along from one generation
to the next. Thus, all of society loses the capabilities that women could
otherwise attain and provide. In this way, women often have a built in
fear of stepping forward to help meet the needs that the world is crying
for.
Harmony needs to be restored between the masculine and feminine natures,
which are especially exhibited in the relations between men and women.
This can be done most effectively through genuine spiritual development,
when both masculine and feminine natures become balanced and complimentary
rather than competitive. This can harmonize not only the external relations
between people, but also the feminine and masculine tendencies within each
individual, both men and women. By genuine spiritual progress we can rise
above our bodily material identities and work with and compliment the talents
and abilities of others, regardless of whether they are men or women. We
must know that within each body is a spirit soul that is no different than
our own. By that I mean that we must recognize that on the platform of
spiritual reality there is no difference between one soul and the next,
no matter whether the external body is male or female. But while we are
in this world and in different types of bodies, we can work cooperatively
for our survival and for harmony among us, and use our naturally varied
talents together. Women can do what they do best and men can do what they
do best. This certainly makes it easier for all to live peacefully than
in a mood of competition and aggression, or envy and prejudice. In such
a mood of cooperation we can see that we all have something to offer or
contribute, and we all have something for which we can be appreciated.
We only need the right opportunity to bring that out of each and every
one of us. The proper leaders of society or of organizations who promote
such situations are those who can arrange for such a harmonious environment
to exist.
One difference
that we often see between men and women is that there is often nothing
harder to penetrate than the typical male ego, which often causes men to
hesitate to show any weakness and to make a show of a tough exterior, while
women often respond easily to love with love. However, love and compassion
are not meant to be exhibited only by women or mothers. It is a state of
being, a level of consciousness. It is an exhibition of one’s
spiritual development to have care and concern, compassion and love for
each and every being. It should be a common interest that everyone should
be able to live a life of opportunity, development and progress for their
own material and spiritual well being. And this concern is natural for
both men and women who have reached this level of spiritual awareness,
recognizing in many ways the similarities between us all, regardless of
our sex. This is what is needed to help bring more peace and cooperation
in the world, and another reason for protecting and emphasizing the traditional
standards of spiritual understanding as found in the teachings of Santana-dharma.
Examples of Great Women in Vedic Culture
Some of the women that have helped make great strides in establishing the
foundation of Sanatana-dharma and Vedic culture can be listed and described.
They serve as fine examples of historical importance that have been the
basis for inspiration to both men and women for centuries. From the early
Vedic times these include such women as Sati, Sita, Anasuya, Arundhatee,
Draupadi, Queen Kunti, Shakuntala, Maitreyi, Gargi, Madalasa, Savitri,
Ahalya, and others. It is said simply reciting their names removes sins.
There are additional women from the last few hundred years whose lives
we can recollect as well. Such great women have contributed to the glories
and splendor of Vedic culture. So let us briefly review the lives of some
of these great women.
Madalasa was the daughter of Vishvasu, the Gandharva king. She was also
a great inspiration to her sons. Ritdhvaj, the son of the powerful king
Shatrujit, was her husband. When Shatrujit died, Ritdhvaj took the position
of king and engaged in the royal duties. In due course, Madalasa gave birth
to a son, Vikrant. When Vikrant would cry, Madalasa would sing words of
wisdom to keep him quiet. She would sing that he was a pure soul, that
he has no real name and his body is merely a vehicle made of the five elements.
He is not really of the body, so why does he cry?
Thus, Madalasa would enlighten her son with spiritual knowledge in the
songs she would sing to him. Because of this knowledge, little Vikrant
grew up to be an ascetic, free from worldly attachments or kingly activities,
and he eventually went to the forest to engage in austerities. The same
thing happened to her second son, Subahu, and her third son, Shatrumardan.
Her husband told her that she should not teach the same knowledge to their
fourth son, Alark, so that at least one of them would be interested in
worldly activities and take up the role of looking after the kingdom. So
to Alark she sang a song of being a great king who would rule the world,
and make it prosperous and free from villains for many years. By so doing
he would enjoy the bounty of life and eventually join the Immortals. In
this way, she trained her son Alark from the beginning of his life in the
direction he would take. This is how a mother can influence her child in
whatever potential may be possible, whether materially or spiritually,
by imparting noble thoughts to open the avenues of activities for her children.
Sati. From the Puranas we learn how Sati would not tolerate the dishonor
of her husband Lord Shiva. Sati was the daughter of Prajapati Daksha, who
was one of the sons of Brahma. Once Daksha arranged to hold a major religious
ritual (yajna) in his capital, near present day Haridwar. Many kings, emperors
and demigods were invited. However, Daksha did not respect Shiva, so Shiva
was not invited. Nonetheless, Sati wanted to go to see her father and many
sisters. Shiva tried to dissuade her from going, saying it was not good
to go uninvited. But Sati went anyway to participate in the yajna. Unfortunately,
she found that her father was greatly insulting her husband, Shiva. Not
bearing the dishonor of her husband, she self-immolated in fire and left
this world altogether, leaving her body in ashes.
When Lord Shiva heard about this, he was terribly angry and taking a hair
from his head, he threw it to the ground and it turned into the demon Veerabhadra
who was the anger of Lord Shiva and who disrupted the yajna. In disappointment,
Lord Shiva then bore the body of Sati to different places in the world.
Sati’s various limbs dropped as Shiva carried her body, and
wherever a limb dropped became a Siddhapeetha, which remain major places
of Shakti worship. According to the Devi Bhagavata there are 108 such Siddhapeethas,
while other texts say there are 51. Among these, 42 are in India, 2 in
Nepal, 1 in Tibet, 1 in Sri Lanka, 1 in Pakistan, and 4 in Bangladesh.
Sati then reincarnated as the daughter of the Himalaya Parvata, and thus
she became known as Parvati. She underwent great austerities and won Lord
Shiva as her husband once again.
Anasuya was a woman who could bring back the life of a dead sage due to
the power of her own austerity and devotion to her husband. She showed
that devotion to a qualified husband gives the wife fame, power and is
the fulfillment of her dharma. Anasuya was the wife of the sage Atri. Her
mother was daughter of the sage Svayambhuva and her father was Kardama
Muni. Her fame had spread throughout both the Earth and the planets of
the Devas.
According to the Markandeya Purana, there was once a sage named Mandasya
who cursed a brahmana named Kaushika to die the next morning at sunrise.
When Kaushiki, Kaushika’s wife, heard the news, she vowed
that by the power of her chastity the sun would never rise. When the sun
did not rise for many days, everyone started to become alarmed. Brahma
then told the other demigods to go to Anasuya and she could assist them
to continue the sunrise by the force of her moral power. Anasuya then entreated
Kaushiki to allow the sunrise to resume. Kaushiki then allowed the sunrise
to take place, but her husband immediately expired because of the curse.
Yet, Anasuya brought the husband back to life by the power of her own austerity
and devotion to her husband. Being pleased by this, the demigods gave Anasuya
the blessing to have her wish for three sons who would be reincarnations
of Brahma, Vishnu and Shiva. Thus, Brahma appeared as Soma, Vishnu as Dattatreya,
and Shiva as Durvasa. Of course she was also greatly honored by her husband
who said to Sri Rama when Rama once visited Atri’s ashrama
during His exile, that Anasuya was a great lady, following the path of
austerity and deserves the salutations of all beings. Anasuya was a bright
example among women.
Sita is fully described in the Ramayana. She was the daughter of King Janaka,
ruler of Mithila. The king was engaged in ritually plowing the land to
help produce food to counter a famine at the time, and while using a golden
plow, it revealed a pitcher that had been buried from which Sita appeared.
The plow tip is called a sita, thus Sita was the name given to her. At
the time, the demon Ravana had collected tax from the local sages who had
placed their blood in this pitcher. Thus, when the plow later uncovered
and churned the pitcher, the life-force from the sages produced Sita, and
Sita thus became the cause of Ravana’s destruction.
As related in the Ramayana, Lord Rama won Sita’s hand in marriage.
But due to political intrigue, Rama’s father, Dasharatha,
had to keep a promise he had made to his second wife Kaikeyi, who wanted
her own son to ascend the throne and not Lord Rama. So she had Rama and
Sita thrown into exile and made to wander the forests. During that time,
Ravana abducted Sita and kept Her in the Ashoka-Vatika, the garden of Ashoka
trees. He tried to force her to marry him but she would not. During that
time Rama and Lakshmana wandered the forests in search of Her. In time
they found out she had been taken by Ravana, and having learned where he
was, Lord Rama finally put the end to him and rescued Sita.
Even though some citizens doubted Sita’s purity, she had undergone
the Agni-Pariksha, or witness by fire to attest to her purity as a devoted
wife. Even then it was over-heard that a washerman had doubts of Sita’s
character, having spent so much time in Ravana’s house. So
to help ward off any criticism, Rama exiled Sita to the forest ashrama
of Valmiki. While there she gave birth to, Lava and Kush, the twin sons
of Lord Rama. Valimiki once brought Sita and her sons to Ayodhya, the capital
of Lord Rama, where the sons sang the Ramayana in front of Lord Rama. Valmiki
also proclaimed that Sita was as good as purity and chastity incarnate.
Though Sita’s life was full of struggle and hardship, she
was innocent and pure. She gave up all comforts to serve her beloved husband
and uphold sanctity, faithfulness, virtue and moral standards. Thus she
holds one of the highest places among women in Vedic culture and of woman’s
character.
Draupadi was the daughter of Drupada who was the king of Panchala. She
was born from the fire ritual and for this reason was also called Yajnaseni.
Her dark complexion also gave her the name of Krishnaa. Queen Kunti was
the mother of the five Pandava brothers, Arjuna, Bhisma, Yudhisthira, Sahadeva
and Nakula. When the Pandavas brought Draupadi back to their home, they
wanted to show her to their mother, but Kunti, without having seen Draupadi,
told them that whatever they have they must all share equally. So Draupadi
became the wife of all five Pandavas. It is said that Draupadi in a previous
life had been the wife of Indra, the King of heaven, and she took five
separate forms in serving her Pandava husbands. Thus, she was most devoted
to her five husbands and was also a great devotee of the Supreme Lord,
and regarded Lord Krishna as her ultimate protector.
One episode that shows this was when in the court of the Kauravas, wicked
Dushashana tried to disrobe her in front of everyone. Draupadi became hopeless
and fervently prayed to Krishna for protection. Krishna heard her prayers
and though He was in Dwaraka, He protected her by providing an endless
supply of cloth to her sari so that it never ended, and she was always
covered and not dishonored in such a way.
Another time was when Durvasa Muni, who was known for his quick anger,
suddenly decided to drop in on the Pandava camp, along with his many thousands
of disciples. He would also want something to eat for himself and his followers.
But the Pandavas had just ate and there was nothing more to prepare. Lord
Krishna asked for whatever remnant grains were left in the pot. Being the
Supreme Lord, if He was satisfied, then everyone would be satisfied. So
He took what few grains were there and when Durvasa Muni arrived, they
were all so full that they no longer wanted anything to eat, and thus left
peacefully.
In Draupadi’s service to her husbands, she had said that she
rises before anyone else, tolerates hunger and thirst, and goes to bed
after the others. She also gave birth to five sons, all of whom were killed
by the wicked Ashwatthama. But since he was the son of the family guru,
and she had such respect for their gurus, he forgave him.
When the Pandavas had reached the end of their lives and were setting out
to ascend to heaven by climbing up into the mountains, she was the last
in line. But she was the first to fall and thus rise to heaven after her
death. Her dedication and devotion make her one of the great personalities
of Vedic culture.
Maitreyi was the wife of the great sage Yajnavalkya. His second wife was
Katyayani. Both were devoted to their husband and of lofty character. However,
Maitreyi had a higher regard for spiritual knowledge and devotion to God
than did Katyayani. The Brihadaranayaka Upanishad relates that finally,
the sage Yajnavalkya wanted to renounce householder life and accept the
sannyasa order of life, and divide his possessions between his two wives.
Maitreyi then questioned to herself what greater thing her husband must
have found if he is willing to give up his present status in householder
life. Surely no one will give up his position unless he finds something
better. So she asked her husband if she had all the riches in the world,
could she still attain immortality. Her husband said certainly not, it
is not possible. All the happiness and conveniences from wealth will not
lead you to God. So Maitreyi then asked why she should acquire wealth if
it is not going to deliver her from future rounds of birth and death. She
requested that he tell her about the Supreme Being, for which he was happily
giving up household life.
Therefore, Yajnavalkya explained to Maitreyi all about the divine knowledge
of the Self. He informed her that no being in this world has any capability
of being dear to another without the presence of the soul within. Even
to enjoy the beauty of this world has no meaning without the soul within
our own body, for the soul is all that we are. Understanding the depths
of spiritual knowledge is the way to attain moksha, liberation from the
continued rounds of birth and death. Thus, Yajnavalkya took sannyasa and
Maitreyi attained supreme bliss by hearing her husband’s discourse
and by diving deep into this spiritual understanding. In this way, Maitreyi
showed how all women can achieve the heights of spiritual understanding
simply by careful listening and practicing the Vedic path.
Gargi was the daughter of Vashaknu, and was also called Vachakni. But because
she was born in the line of the Garga Gotra or family line, she was also
called Gargi, a name by which she became well known. The Brihadaranayaka
Upanishad explains that she asked the sage many questions on spiritual
science and became highly educated in this way. Once in the court of King
Janaka there was arranged to be a debate on the spiritual sciences. He
wanted to find out who was the person who knew best the science of the
Absolute, and that person would receive 1000 decorated cows with horns
plated with gold. None of the local brahmanas complied because they were
afraid they would have to prove their knowledge, and may not be up to the
task. However, the sage Yajnavalkya told his disciple to take all the cows
to his place, which started the debate.
Yajnavalkya answered the questions from many scholars who approached him,
setting aside all of their concerns and doubts. However, then came Gargi’s
turn to ask the sage whatever she wanted. But she asked many different
and complex questions on the immortality of the soul, the arrangement of
the universe, and many other topics. Finally Gargi herself bowed to the
sage and proclaimed that there was no one else who was more greatly learned
in the Vedic Shastras than Yajnavalkya. In this way, Gargi showed that
in Vedic culture it was not unexpected for women to become greatly learned
in the Vedic sciences, nor that they could not discuss such topics with
wise and kindly sages who also shared their knowledge with them. Thus she
is a luminous example of women in the Vedic tradition.
Savitri was the only child of a king named Ashwapati, the king of Madra-Desha,
as explained in the Mahabharata and Matsya Purana. He had performed austerities
to please Lord Brahma and his consort, Savitri Devi, to have progeny by
chanting the Savitri prayer. When a daughter arrived, he named her Savitri,
and she grew to be a girl of great beauty and character, and wonderful
personality and qualities. Unfortunately, her father could find no suitable
husband for her when she became of age. So he sent her to different parts
of the country so she could find a husband she deemed acceptable. After
some time Savitri decided to marry Satyavana, but he was the son of Dyumatsena
who was the blind and exiled king of Shalya-Desha. Because of this, they
lived in the forest. Satyavana was simple but bore a countenance of royalty,
which attracted Savitri.
Savitri returned to her father to relate the news, however the sage Narada
Muni happened to be there and heard it and revealed that Satyavana was
highly qualified but was to live for only one year longer. But Savitri
had made her decision and would not marry another. So to fulfill Savitri’s
intention, the king arranged for a wedding.
One day, after living in the forest for a year, Satyavana went off to chop
some wood as usual. Savitri had been observing penance for many months
and followed him into the woods. On this day Satyavana fell down with a
headache. At that same time, Savitri saw a ferocious person approaching
and could recognize that it was Yama, the lord of death, who was coming
to take Satyavana since his life was ending. After Yama had taken Satyavana,
Savitri started to follow Yama. He asked her not to follow him and even
promised her many boons, all but the life of her husband. Nonetheless,
Savitri continued to follow him until he granted her wishes.
Savitri asked Yama for her father-in-law’s eyesight to return,
along with his lost kingdom. Then she asked for one hundred sons for her
father. All these were granted as Yama became increasingly impatient. Then
she asked for one hundred sons for herself as well, all of them as handsome
and wise as Satyavana, to which Yama also agreed without much thought.
But then he realized his mistake and had to allow Satyavana to continue
with his life. Thus by the power of Savitri’s austerity, wisdom
and devotion, she conquered death for her husband and blessed her own father
and father-in-law as well.
GREAT WOMEN IN MORE RECENT TIMES
Sri Gangamata Goswamini was born as Sachi, the princess daughter of King
Naresh Narayana in the present state of Bengal. She was a great devotee
of God from her early childhood. As she grew and entered into her education,
she studied grammar and poetry but soon spent all her time studying the
Vedic scriptures. All the boys were attracted to her and her father began
to think of arranging for her marriage. But she was not the least bit attracted
to any young men. She was always filled with thoughts of Madana Gopala,
Krishna.
Gradually the king and queen grew old and left this world, leaving the
responsibilities of governing the kingdom to Sachi. She accepted these,
but later arranged to allow other relatives to govern in her place as she
went to see the holy places on the plea of traveling throughout the kingdom.
After so much travel, she still was not satisfied and wanted to find a
spiritual master. Then she went to Jagannatha Puri and while having darshan
of the Deities she was inspired with an inner message to go to Vrindavana.
After arriving in Vrindavana she met Haridas Pandit, who was solely devoted
to Lord Gauranga and Nityananda. Sachi was filled with ecstasy and after
meditating for several days Haridas Pandit gave her shelter, upon which
she prayed to him with tearful eyes begging for his mercy for spiritual
advancement. Haridas discouraged her from staying in Vrindavana, telling
her that it is not possible for a princess to remain absorbed in bhajan
with little to eat and no comforts. But she stayed and gradually gave up
her nice clothes and opulent ornaments. Noticing this determination, Haridas
instructed with his blessings that she could wander throughout Vrajamandala
and beg from place to place as a renounced devotee. Having accepted Haridas
as her guru, she was filled with joy. Thereafter, freed from her false
ego and dressed in rags, she went begging alms and exhibited her intense
renunciation which astonished all the devotees.
Her body grew thin and physically exhausted. She would sleep on
the banks of the Yamuna and rise to sweep the Lord’s temple,
have darshan and listen to the Bhagavatam classes. Haridasa became very
happy seeing the intent of Sachi and promised to give her initiation into
the mantra. Haridasa Pandit had another disciple named Lakshmipriya who
at that time arrived in Vrindavana. She used to chant 300,000 names of
Krishna everyday. Haridasa sent her to live near Sachi on the banks of
the Radhakunda. Everyday Lakshmipriya and Sachi would circumambulate Govardhana
Hill. Thus they continued in their devotional service to the Lord with
great determination. Then one day Haridasa Pandit instructed Sachi to return
to Jagannatha Puri to continue her bhajan there and preach what she learned
of Sri Chaitanya’s teachings. However, most of Sri Chaitanya’s
associates had already left the planet.
Sri Sachidevi returned to Jagannatha Puri and stayed in Sarvabhauma’s
house where she engaged in bhajan and gave classes on the Srimad-Bhagavatam.
She also established first class worship of the Damodara Salagram in that
house, which was crumbling and where few people ever visited. However,
her classes became famous and many people started to attend to listen to
her discourses. One day even the king of Puri, Mukunda Dev, came to hear
her Bhagavatam class, and he was astounded. He wanted to make a nice offering
to her in appreciation for her worship to Lord Krishna, and that night
he had a wonderful dream in which Lord Jagannatha appeared to him and said
to offer her a place on the banks of the Sveta (White) Ganges.
The next day the king went to make the offering to Sachidevi, but she was
not inclined to accept any wealth or comforts and wanted to refuse. The
king persisted and not wishing to violate Lord Jagannatha’s
order, he issued a decree dedicating a holy ghat by the side of the White
Ganges after Sri Sachidevi. The decree stated that she was a princess that
gave up everything to come to Puri and preach the teachings of Lord Chaitanya.
One day Sri Sachidevi wanted to go to the Ganges to bathe, but remembered
the order of her spiritual master never to leave Jagannatha Puri. That
night she had a dream wherein Lord Jagannatha appeared to her and told
her not to worry, that the day when Varuni will take bath is approaching
when you must go to bathe in the White Ganges. Gangadevi had been praying
for Sachidevi’s association, so she should go.
Sachidevi was extremely happy, having had this divine vision. The day of
the Varuni-snana came and in the middle of the night Sachideva went to
the White Ganges to bathe, but the current of Gangadevi overflooded the
pond and carried her away to the Jagannatha Mandira. Seeing this, thousands
of devotees became ecstatic and also took their holy bath in the Ganges.
In the midst of the commotion, the guards of the Jagannatha temple awoke
and were speechless to see all that had happened. Hearing the noise, they
went inside the temple. The king had also awoken and ordered the gates
of the temple to be opened. When the doors were open, Sachidevi was standing
there alone inside the temple. The servants and priests concluded that
she must be a thief to steal Jagannatha’s valuable ornaments.
Then Sachidevi was taken to the dungeon where she was imprisoned to stand
trial for theft. Sachidevi was indifferent and remained absorbed in chanting
the Lord's holy names.
Later that night, Lord Jagannatha appeared to Mukunda Dev in a dream and
demanded that he release Sachidevi. The Lord explained that it was because
of His personal arrangement to wash Sachidevi's holy feet that He had the
Ganga bring Sachidevi to His temple. If the king wanted his life to be
auspicious, then he better have all of the pandas and priests bow at her
feet and beg for forgiveness, and the king must take initiation from her.
The next day the king did as he was told, making sure that everyone paid
full obeisances to her while asking for forgiveness for the offenses made
at the feet of a devotee. He also begged that she accept him as a disciple
and give him initiation.
Sachidevi become very joyful, understanding that this was all due to the
arrangement of the Lord. Placing her hand on the king’s head,
she blessed him, and soon thereafter she gave him initiation into the eighteen
syllable Radha-Krishna mantra. Many of the priests also took shelter of
her on that day. It was from that day that Sachidevi became known as Gangamata
Goswamini.
One day a strict smarta-brahmana, Mahidhara Swami, came to the banks of
the Sveta-Ganga and wanted to have darshan of her holy feet. He had come
to offer worship for his ancestors and while in discussion with Sri Gangamata
Goswamini, she instructed the Srimad-Bhagavatam to him. The brahmana was
astonished by her explanations and asked to take shelter of her. On an
auspicious day she initiated him into the Radha-Krishna mantra of ten syllables.
On the order of Sri Gangamata Goswamini, he preached the message of nama-prema,
ecstasy of the holy name, and the teachings of Lord Chaitanya throughout
Bengal.
Sri Sita Thakurani is the eternal wife of Sri Advaita Acharya, who is considered
an avatara of Maha-Vishnu. Sita Thakurani is to be worshiped as much as
Mother Sachideva, the mother of Sri Chaitanya. She married Advaita Acharya
in Phuliya Nagara and they moved to Shantipura. Sita Thakurani was always
absorbed in motherly devotion to Sri Chaitanya and would instruct Jagannatha
Misra, Sri Chaitanya’s father, on how to care for the boy.
Advaita Acharya was the one who did special worship near the Ganges in
Shantipur to call the Lord to appear in this world, having felt that the
conditions were so bad that only the Lord Himself could help. Thus, both
Advaita Acharya and Sita Thakurani were in great bliss when Sri Chaitanya
appeared in this world, and she brought Him many presents. From then on,
Sri Sita Thakurani would often come to Mayapur from Shantipur to see the
child and to give instructions to Sachimata about how to care for the child.
The Gaura-Ganodesha Dipika explains that Sri Sita Thakurani is an incarnation
of Yogamaya. The Gaura-Parshada-Chiritvali says that in the Krishna pastimes
she was Purnamasi, the mother of Sandipani Muni, grandmother of Madhumangal
and Nandimukhi, and a disciple of Narada Muni. The Gaura-Ganodesha Dipika
however says that Purnamasi in the Krishna pastimes went on to become Sri
Govinda Acharya in the Chaitanya pastimes.
When Sri Chaitanya was grown, he went to Gaya and became initiated by Iswara
Puri. Afterwards he returned to Mayapur and started His sankirtana pastimes.
Sri Advaita Acharya and Sita Thakurani were the first to worship Sri Chaitanya
at the beginning of His real purpose in this world.
After Sri Chaitanya took sannyasa and went to Jagannatha Puri to live,
Sri Advaita Acharya and Sita Thakurani would go and visit Him, bringing
their own son, Achyutananda. On one such occasion Sita Thakurani made many
of the Lord’s favorite preparations and invited Him to their
place to take lunch. Simply to increase their ecstasy, the Lord honored
their invitation. Always being absorbed in motherly affection, she treated
Him like her own son and He returned the sentiment. Sri Sita Thakurani
bore three sons, Achyutananda, Krishna Mishra and Gopala Mishra. Thus,
she was an inspiration for spreading the mission of the sankirtana movement.
Sri Jahnava Mata was born of Sri Suryadasa, along with her sister Sri Vasudha.
The Gaura-Ganodesha-dipika explains that They are both expansions of Varuni
(Sri Vasudha) and Revati (Jahnava Mata), and that they are both incarnations
of Ananga-manjari. In time the daughters became of marriageable age and
Suryadasa gave it much thought. The one night he had a dream in which he
gave both of his daughters to Sri Nityananda. Surya dasa then told a brahmana
friend about this and it was arranged to deliver the message to Sri Nityananda
Himself. Upon hearing of it He agreed, after which the ecstasy of Suryadasa
knew no bounds.
Arrangements were made for the wedding at Borogacchi Gram, and many devotees
from all around attended (the full details of which are recorded in the
Bhakti-Ratnakara). Thus, Suryadasa was most fortunate to have given both
of his daughters to Sri Nityananda Prabhu. Lord Nityananda stayed in Shaligrama
Pura for a while but then went to Nabadvipa to show His mother Sachideva
His two wives. Sachimata was delighted to see them. On the order of Sachimata,
Nityananda went to the house of Advaita Acharya in Shantipura. When his
wife Sita Thakurani saw Vasudha and Sri Jahnava, she floated in waves of
ecstasy. Sri Nityananda wandered from place to place performing many sankirtana
pastimes (congregational singing of the Lord’s holy names).
In due course, Sri Vasudhadevi gave birth to a daughter named Ganga and
a son named Virachandra. However, Sri Jahnavadevi had no children.
As time passed, Sri Nityananda Prabhu, Advaita Acharya, Shrivasa Pandita,
and many other members of Lord Chaitanya’s personal entourage
left this world to return to the spiritual domain. Sri Jahnava Mata still
wanted to inundate the world with a flood of sankirtana nectar. In Kheturi
Gram at that time was a great festival to be held on the celebration day
of Chaitanya Mahaprabhu’s advent. Many devotees attended,
like Narottama, Shyamananda and Shrinivas. The festival had been arranged
by King Santosh Dutta. Sri Jahnava herself attended the festival and cooked
the food for offering to the Gaura-Nitai Deities there. After the festival
for one night, they went on to Nabadvipa. However, Sri Jahnava did not
get to see Sachimata, Lord Chaitanya’s mother, and felt very
unhappy. She went on to the home of Sripati and Srinidhi, but again was
heartbroken because of not seeing Srivasa Pandit and Malinidevi there.
After spending the night they went on to Shantipura and again discovered
that Sri Advaita Acharya and his wife Sita Thakurani had also both passed
away. Though greeted by their sons, Achyutananda and Gopala, Sri Jahnava
was filled with grief.
Sri Jahnava Mata continued to travel with her associates and devotees,
always gathering to perform sankirtana, the congregational chanting and
singing of the Lord’s holy names. In this way, many devotees
were able to drown themselves in the nectar of kirtana, and even many atheists
and sinners were greatly purified. On one special occasion at Kheturi Gram,
even Lord Chaitanya and Lord Nityananda, who had already left this world,
made Their divine appearance again in the midst of the kirtana.
Sri Jahnava Mata was a wonderful cook and would prepare herself such dishes
as rice, vegetable preps, and other foods to be offered to the Deities
at such festivals. Thereafter, she would distribute the prasada (offered
food) herself with her own hand to the great souls who were gathered there.
When Sri Jahnava went to visit Vrindavana, she was greeted by many great
devotees, and her ecstasy was unlimited. The Gosvamis offered their pranams
and she also offered her obeisances in return. She was very happy seeing
the efforts of the Gosvamis in renovating the holy land. She toured the
holy places of Vrindavana and saw the different Deities. After visiting
the many pilgrimage places, she returned to Gaudadesha, Bengal. While there
she also visited the town of Sri Nityananda’s birth, Ekachakra,
and was filled with ecstasy to see where He partook of childhood pastimes.
She continued her travels, returning to Nabadvipa and seeing the birthplace
of Lord Chaitanya Mahaprabhu where she fainted in ecstasy. She then went
to the nearby courtyard of Srivasa, where she spent the night and the devotees
engaged in a great sankirtana, for this is where Sri Chaitanya Mahaprabhu
began His sankirtan movement. That night she had a dream of Lord Chaitanya
in which He performed different pastimes.
In this way, Jahnava Mata continued in her pastimes of traveling to visit
various devotees and engaging in sankirtana festivals, cooking food to
be offered to the Deities, and even witnessing the appearance of Lord Chaitanya
and Nityananda in the midst of some of those ecstatic kirtans. She continued
to deliver the love of bhakti (devotion) to numerous people, even atheists
and materialists by her mercy. Thus, being considered the divine shakti
of Lord Nityananda Himself, she continued the mission of Lord Chaitanya
and Lord Nityananda by her activities, which centered around sankirtana
and cooking and distributing prasada to everyone.
Vishnupriya devi is the wife of Sri Chaitanya Mahaprabhu and appeared to
assist with His mission of spreading the holy name of Krishna. She is said
to be the internal potency of the Lord known as Bhu-shakti. Thus, Sri Chaitanya
and Vishnupriya are as Vishnu and Lakshmi combined again.
Vishnupriya was the daughter of Sanatana Mishra. He was a highly developed
Vishnu bhakta. He was pious and generous and would feed, clothe and shelter
many people. He was famous as the king of pandits. It is said that he was
a king named Satrijit in the age of Dvapara-yuga. It was a result of his
great devotion that he was blessed with such a qualified daughter.
Vishnupriya was devoted to her parents and would bathe in the Ganga three
times a day and observed many different vows of spiritual austerity, and
was devoted to the shastric principles. Everyday when she would bathe in
the Ganga, she would also bow at the feet of Mother Sachi, the mother of
Sri Chaitanya, and Mother Sachi would bless her that Krishna may provide
her with a qualified husband. Upon further enquiry Mother Sachi learned
that she was the daughter of Sanatana Mishra, a qualified pandita of Nabadvipa,
and she began to think that Vishnupriya may make a good wife for her own
son Nimai, Sri Chaitanya.
At this time, Sri Chaitanya’s first wife, Lakshmipriya, had
passed away and entered the spiritual domain. So Mother Sachi was in great
pain at first, but started to think how to arrange for her son’s
happiness. When she learned that He did not mind the idea of marrying again,
Sachi began to make plans in earnest to have her son remarried, and proposed
that a match be made with Vishnupriya. She made consultation with Sanatana
Mishra and he agreed and was pleased. It was arranged by the people and
devotees to be a grand event. (This is fully explained in the Chaitanya
Bhagavata.)
Sri Vishnupriya spent her life as a devoted wife. Even when Sri Chaitanya
took sannyasa to engage completely in His purpose of preaching and spreading
the glories of Krishna’s holy names, Vishnupriya stayed with
Mother Sachi, engaging in service to the Lord together. Later, Vishnupriya
had her own Deity of Sri Chaitanya and worshiped that Deity until she left
this world at the age of 92. This Deity is still worshiped in Nabadvipa
in a temple where you can visit and have darshan of this same Deity. In
this way, she also assisted in the continuation of Sri Chaitanya’s
sankirtana movement and in the principles of Vedic culture.
Rani Lakshmi Bai of Jhansi was one of the most brave and legendary of warrior
women of India. The city of Jhansi was an important center in the 18th
century, but in 1803 the British East India Company took over control of
the state. The last raja at the time died without a son in 1853. The British
had passed a law that allowed them to assume control of any state under
their patronage if the ruler died without a male heir. The Rani of Jhansi,
however, did not like this enforced retirement and preferred to rule on
her own. So she was ready for the rebellion at Jhansi when the Indian Mutiny
began. The British in Jhansi were killed, but the next year the British
took Jhansi because of the disunity among the rebel forces. The rani fled
to Gwalior and while there made a defiant last stand. Disguised as a man,
she rode out to battle against the British, but was unfortunately killed.
Her qualities of boldness, patriotism, and generalship were highly appreciated,
even by her foreign rivals. Since then she has been a heroine of the independence
movement of India.
The hilltop fortress of Chittorgarh was another but more general example
of the chivalry of the Rajputs and the warrior spirit of the women. The
fort has a long history. In 1303 was when the Pathan King of Delhi, Ala-ud-din
Khilji, attacked the fort in an attempt to capture the queen Padmini, wife
of Bhim Singh, the Rana’s uncle. When it was obvious that
defeat was inevitable, the Rajput noblewomen, which included Padmini, committed
Sati while Bhim Singh, knowing of his certain defeat, nonetheless took
his men and put on the saffron robes of martyrdom and rode to battle and
to their deaths. Honor was more important than death to them, and the women
also would rather die than submit to the enemy and certain humiliation.
Another such event at Chittorgarh took place in 1535 when the Sultan of
Gujarat, Bahadur Shah, besieged the fort, and once again the Rajputs did
what they could. It is said that13,000 Rajput women and 32,000 Rajput warriors
died in the battle. The last of such scenes took place in 1568 when the
Moghul Emperor, Akbar, took the town. The women again performed Sati and
8000 saffron clad warriors rode out to their deaths. Again death was better
than submitting to the Muslim invaders.
Devi Ahalya Bai Holkar, the queen of Indore (Madhya Pradesh) has set an
excellent example of efficient administration. Her contribution to encourage
free trade and the concept of the welfare state is very admirable. Her
practices for maintaining integral nationality, her quick impartial justice
were very effective. She led a very simple and selfless life, not utilizing
anything from the royal treasury for her personal use.
Jijabai was not exactly a warrior herself but was the mother of Shivaji,
one of the great protectors of the country and its religion. She was the
guide who shaped his mind from his early years. She was the embodiment
of self-respect. She nurtured her child to fight and bring back Hindu Rastra
and became a constant source of inspiration to her heroic son.
Mira Bai is another name that many people will recognize for her saintly
loving attachment to Lord Krishna. Her history is not so clear, but it
is generally accepted that she was born in 1498 in a village near Merta
about 40 to 50 miles northwest of Ajmer. She was the daughter of Ratna
Singh, a Rajput noble and warrior who was much involved in fighting. Mira’s
mother died when she was still very young. For these reasons she was sent
to live with her grandfather, Rau Dudaj, who had taken the town from the
Muslims to repopulate it with Hindus.
Mira was a devotee of Krishna from very young. One story is that even before
her mother died, Mira begged for an image of Krishna from a holy man who
had visited her home, which she received. She became so attached to the
Deity that her mother would joke that Krishna would become her bridegroom.
Mira’s family were all Vaishnavas and regular worship was
a common event in their home. Later, Mira’s grandfather died
and her uncle Viramji took responsibility of her.
In 1508 Rana Sangh, the great Rajput warrior, tried to arrange for the
defense of the oncoming Muslims by marrying Dhan Bai of the Jodhpur branch
of the House of Rathor, and thus establish alliances with other local rulers.
He also arranged with Viram Dev for the marriage of Mira to his own heir,
Prince Bhoja Raj, in 1516. This was supposed to secure an alliance of power
to the north.
So in 1516 Mira was married to Bhoja Raj, but the marriage was childless.
Mira was never interested in the marriage and was completely preoccupied
with her devotion to Lord Krishna, who in her poems she refers to as her
husband, and to herself as a virgin. It is said that Bhoja Raj was frustrated
with her for a while but gradually understood the devotional nature of
Mira and did not expect her to play the typical role as a wife. There is
a temple that is said to have been built for Mira Bai at the Chittorgarh
Fort where she would worship her Deity of Lord Krishna. You can still visit
this temple if you ever go to this fort.
War was common place at the time and in one such battle Mira’s
father, Ratna Singh, was killed. Even Mira’s uncle was attacked
by an opposing family, and Mira was increasingly left alone to her own
devices. This was most often based on her devotion to Krishna.
The marriage of Mira to help military alliances did not work out well for
Mira because 15 years later, in 1531, when Rana Sangh had been dead for
3 years, Vikramajita (Vikramaditya), who was a mere boy of 14, acceded
the Kingdom of Mewar and was most temperamental. [Rana Raymal reigned at
Chittor 1473-1508. Rana Sangh was his son.] This put Mira in the spite
of members of a rival family. Vikramajita did not like Mira and it is said
at one point he locked her in a room with a guard. This did not have the
desired effect, so he tried to poison her, but that also failed. She refers
to this in her poems as the intervention of her Lord Krishna.
It is thought that Mira took refuge of her uncle Viram Dev in Merta until
Viram was expelled from his own capital by the King of Jodhpur in 1538.
From this point, the rest of Mira’s story is unclear. However,
there are a few bits and pieces that seem to stand correctly. In the first
half of the 17th century Mira is said to have visited Vrindavan. She may
have been a wandering ascetic after Viram was forced from Merta. The poet
of Priyadas who was at Vrindavan at the time says that Mira went to see
Jiva Gosvami of Sri Chaitanya’s association, but Jiva refused
to see her because she was a woman. She replied that she thought Lord Krishna
was the only male in Vrindavana and all others were female gopis (cowherd
maidservants). This led to Jiva Gosvami admitting her into see him. There
is also an old temple in Vrindavana that is still dedicated to her presence
there, and there is an altar with nice Krishna Deities you can see there.
Other histories say that she went to Dwaraka and lived there for a considerable
time, worshiping at the temple there.
The death of Mira Bai in 1614 is also unclear, but it is said that in course
of time, evil fell on the fort of Chittor where Mira’s family
members lived, and where they began to think that the decline of the fortress
was because of their persecution of a great devotee, namely Mira. The king
sent a message begging for her to return, but she took shelter at the temple
of Ranchor (Krishna) to pray, and it is said that her body melted into
the Deity.
In any case, Mira’s poems remain an inspiration to many, and
stir the heart toward devotion to Krishna in many ways. They also emphasize
the means of developing attraction to Krishna’s form, pastimes
and the chanting of His names, and exemplifies a love relationship with
the Lord.
Vandaniya Lakshmibai Kelkar (Kamal as she was known as a little girl) is
another woman who did a tremendous amount of work of India and its culture.
She was born on July 6, 1905 to Bhaskar Rao Datey and her mother Yasodabai.
Kamal grew up in a congenial environment which molded her into a sensitive
and intelligent girl. She learned the qualities of serving others to assist
in their needs from her aunt who continually worked to ease the plight
of people affected by the plague. Kamal was also imbued with devotion to
India and its culture, and developed an acute sense to organize and execute
plans for its preservation. This was due to her mother who would read to
the local ladies the national newspapers to enlighten them about the oppressions
committed by the British. Though this was viewed by the British rulers
as an act of treason, she asserted that as a free person and not a Government
servant she had the right to read such papers.
In the meantime, Kamal was admitted to the only available convent school
in town, but shortly left because of the Christian domination in it. She
grew to be a lovely teenager but was determined not to marry anyone that
demanded dowry. So she later married a widower, Purushottam Kelkar. He
had two daughters from his first marriage. In the wedding, Kamal was given
the name Lakshmi, meaning prosperity. In her marriage she took care of
her two daughters, managed the household and in time became the mother
of six sons.
Laxmi was not satisfied with mere household duties. She also had the spirit
of patriotism, sacrifice and social reform. She was waiting for the chance
to participate in the freedom movement. She attended meetings and listened
to the top leaders of the movement and observed the effects of the Law
Defiance Movement, along with the gradual change in the social psyche.
She felt that obtaining political freedom was necessary, but that every
citizen of free Bharat must come forward with a firm common will and total
identification with the national interests, ancient glories, the Vedic
culture and traditions of Bharat. But how to put this all together was
the issue.
During this time some eminent personalties were striving for the education
of women. Due to Western impact, Indian women were struggling for equal
rights and economic freedom. Yet this led to progress of the individual
but not for the society as a whole, and to self-centerdness. This presented
the risk of women losing their commitment to love, sacrifice, service and
other inborn qualities that glorify Hindu women. She felt that this attraction
to the easy and showy way of western life that lead to this unnatural change
in the attitude of women could also lead to the disintegration of family,
which has been a primary and important factor in Vedic society for imparting
the proper Vedic culture. So Lakshmibai was worried by this.
After attending discourses by Gandhi and hearing him advising the ladies
to follow the life of Sita and Savitri, she studied the Ramayana and Mahabharata.
She was attracted to the literature of Swami Vivekananda who professed
that men and women are equally important constituents of the nation just
like two wings of a bird. Lakshmibai came to the conclusion that women
should boldly come forward and share the responsibility in solving the
various problems of the society.
Lakshmibai lost her husband in 1923 and was left to look after eight children
and a vast property. She faced the situation and still pursued her national
commitments. Later, through her sons, she learned of an organization based
on individual contact, mutual love and voluntary discipline called the
Rashtriya Swayam Sevak Sangh. She thought that this type of organization
would also work well for meeting the challenge among women. After meeting
with Dr. Hedgewar about her ideas, she formed an organization for women
called Rashtra Sevika Samiti on Vijaya Dashami Day, October 25, 1936. She
sketched the working plan for the organization and shouldered all the responsibility
herself.
As the
organization grew, among its members Lakshmibai was called by her family
nickname of “Mousiji�, but they prefixed it with
“Vandaniya� to show their respect. Vandaniya
Mousiji’s talent of nursing became especially useful, since
she had to nurse a number of ailing minds from all kinds of weaknesses.
It was difficult in those days for a socially and economically well placed
young widow to get involved in work wherein prestige, honor and fame were
never to be aspired for.
In the beginning she was also too shy to deliver speeches and often would
ask a friend to do it for her. But through perseverance, firm will and
relentless practice she slowly acquired most of the qualities to lead the
organization.
The basic premise of the organization was the practice and promotion of
Vedic culture in its relevance to modern times. She convinced many women
to do the same by protecting it through the natural process of imparting
the proper impressions at home, especially to her children. It is through
this process that a mother’s power can build a strong character-based
society.
To set the proper example, she introduced Devi Ashtabhuja, a symbol of
the ideal Hindu woman with eight (ashta) specific qualities, such as chastity,
boldness, affection, alertness, etc., that every woman should have. To
organize and inspire the women, there were regular meetings. And to spread
it, Mousiji started touring with what little transportation that could
be arranged, traveling alone and with her small son, depending on God to
avoid the risks. Gradually, the Samiti grew to a national organization,
holding special gatherings in places like Mumbai.
Taking a special interest in education, the “Bharatiya Shri
Vidya Niketan� was registered in 1983 to reorganize the system
of girls’ education.
Having
studied the Ramayana, Mahabharata and Bhagavata Purana, she gave discourses
on them and inspired many women to inculcate the firm will, sanctity of
thought and deed, and the self-protecting spiritual power like that of
Sita and Draupadi. Her discourses became popular and large numbers of people
would throng to hear her sweet voice and logical interpretation. She could
convince many younger generations to look on Vedic culture as their national
heritage and the divine personalities such as Sri Krishna, Sri Rama and
Sita, and Savitri as national heroes and heroines.
Vandaniya Mousiji was very affectionate and loving as a mother but equally
strict as a general in organizational matters. The individual attention
that she showed on each sevika volunteer made them feel that Mousiji loved
her the most.
Vandaniya Mousiji passed away on November 27, 1978 at the age of 73. The
news spread quickly and many members came to pay their last homage to one
of the recent architects of “Modern Vedic Women�.
Through her foresightedness she had already made arrangements and had appointed
leaders to continue the work without any confusion after her passing. The
Samiti was then lead by Vandaniya Saraswatibai (Taiji Apte) until her passing
on March 9, 1994. During her tenure the organization even spread outside
India. The Samiti has since been lead under the loving and careful guidance
of Vandaniya Ushatai Chati, who had been appointed by Taiji Apte herself.
Thus, from the efforts of Mousiji, the women volunteers of the Samiti are
continuing in the protection and promotion of Vedic culture.
* * *
There are many other women I could have included in this article, especially
those who have been recognized as saints and guardians of Vedic culture,
such as Anandamayi Ma who lived in Vrindavana. And presently there are
such women as Mother Karunamayi and Mother Amritanandamayi Ma whose life
stories are also inspirational, and who are traveling throughout the world
and actively preserving and expanding the understanding of various aspects
of the Vedic tradition. Because they offer the unconditional love of a
spiritual mother for their spiritual children, their popularity is one
of the reasons why thousands of people, especially women, have been attracted
to such lady pioneers in spirituality. The world is like a desert craving
for the rejuvenation and reciprocation of such love. Why would it not be
attractive? Even now there are a host of other women that I have met, whether
they are in the Rashtra Seviki Samiti, Iskcon, Vivekanandra Kendra, Arun
Jyoti, Swadyaya, Kalyan Ashrama, or other organizations, all working in
various ways in their humble service to God, as well as for the protection
and advancement of Vedic culture.
So these are just a few stories of the examples of strong and influential
women in Vedic culture, from the early Vedic times up to modern date, and
how women can further their development in spirituality and reach a higher
potential and contribution to society.
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